I have considered something like the dance situation several times but didn't know how to approach the topic w/o looking like I was trying to have contact with females on the side but in the open.
My next project for myself is how to do something like the dance situation w/o coming across like I am out looking for an OW or a string of "just friends females."
I could be wrong, but my take on Nop’s advice was to make the impression on BB that you DID intend to make contact with other women. Stop being a scaredy cat (Mojo, does that fit in a box somewhere) and worrying whether you will make BB mad. Let her get mad, then SHE can do something to fix the marriage.
BTW, I would pay up BIG TIME on a new custom-fit suit, WAAAAAY out of your normal patterns.
