Yeah, I remember, but I also know from my sitch that all those control related things are just different ways of screaming for attention. You had you methods, he has his. Focusing on what he did, what you did, will not do any good, IMO. The underlying issue is that you both need validation and both act out with power and anger when you don’t get it. So just give it.
So there is a very good case for wiping the slate clean. Dr. Laura really can help you understand the man’s POV. Do you think you are seeing a little clearer now, or that your vision has broadened a little?
