I have been on LR technique since Oct. It took a lot or praying on my part, soul searching, opening up my heart to God and asking the Lord to allow me to see me as he sees me. I to carried a grudge for along time. That was a conscience choice I made. Thank God I choose not to do that anymore since I recognized all the poor choices I made in the past. Life is too short to begin with.
I pray everyday that God will soften her heart, but her choice is not to do that since all humans have a free will. I have to admit that it sadens me that my patience is wearing thin and depressing me. I'm not at my W about this, just sad. CY