Jill, I have been reading some of your thread and will say, after posting for a long time, it seems like I say the same things over and over again.
Girl I was worried about you for a long time after all of the dates you went on after your D. All of your post about jerks, nice guys but they just didn't do it for you, decent guys but you didn't have those feelings after a while. You saying that maybe love was somehow pass tense and maybe you were meant to be alone. I was worried you were going to the third side, neutral gender.
Then two guys stirred the desire in your heart. WOW, good for Jill. It was about time. She deserves someone to be happy with.
I can see why we both cut back on posting for many reasons. Me saying the same things over again and you finding that special someone.
Jill if I was in your position, I wouldn't find much to post about, except to support my cyber friends and maybe make a few points of advice about how to recognize small successes in relationships.
Funny how I had time when I was working but don't now. Sometimes the task expands to consume the available time. It happens to lost of so called retired folks.
Before my uncle died a trip to the drug store to pick up a prescription and a hair cut took up all of his day.
Be well Jill and hope you are soon to be out of snow country.