Well said 8. Heywyre, without changing this into your thread, is/has your H trying to quit the A? That makes a difference. In my sitch, my W has no intention of ending it at this moment. She feels the OM is the one and only. There are so many variables to consider.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......