Okay I am trying to give him space. He talks to Ow every morning (this is what the A really has been emails, text msgs and cell phone calls - less than 12 times actually together or so he says - like he knows the truth) from 5:15 AM until he gets to work at 6 AM.

Now today he calls me to check in - I left it go to voice mail - do I call him back at some point? How far do I distance myself to let him see I can and will get on without him but yet not push him away so much that he can up file for D???? This is such a fine line to walk and I HATE playing these games - how am I going to get through this??????


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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