Thanks for the replies.. It sounds like I told my H pretty much what you have. I don't want D but if he thinks he will be happier with OW, then that is where he should go.. I don't want that but if that would make him truly happy then so be it. He actually got mad at me and said that I am acting like a victim saying that I'm willing to let him go. I do feel like he is very much addicted to OW.
I have done so much better this week at not being clingy. It makes me feel better about myself as well. Although, I got zero comments on my new outfit today, I know he loves the thongs!! Couldn't keep his hands off me
As for pressure to end the A, there are a few people as well as the church who are starting to put the pressure on. H is reacting like a 2-year-old that is told he can't have a toy - very defiant. So, I feel like I can just be supportive and positive about our R right now. I get the feeling that OW is wanting to talk to people about him - starting with her young children. I can't imagine that this will go over very well with H right now since he is still living at home. I kind of feel like once she starts talking, she won't shut up!! and the cat will be out of the bag!
