I talked to a coach, First is to remove myself from the A. Do not talk about it, do not facilitate it, do not concern myself with it. GAL, keep myself busy. Do not worry about the phone calls. Keep a positive attitude, don't share my fellings, she knows them and I will be O.K. without her. Let the A take it's course, leave it alone.
Today I have turned over a new leaf, I will focus on my goals. I will stay happy and strong. Firm but friendly. Quit the drama she so much loves and leave her to wonder why? Show her changes in my attitude, that I am a strong confident person and she will not bring me into this dramatic situation. This is a good day, nothing will stop me from turning over this new leaf, and I will be srong.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
