If he doesn't think it is an A, he must be in denial. Must be a symtom of MIL.
Could your H not feel confident about taking care of your S on his own?
I have always thought there are symptoms of MIL too....
And H does take care of S on his own and has previously looked after him overnight when I've had to travel for work....so it's not about him not feeling confident. I honestly believe it is OW saying that they will not last if he spends so much time away from her.......some of the things that come out of his mouth are just not him talking.
Me 36 ring on H 41 ring off S2 Together since 1992 Married: 2000 Bomb Aug 06 H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)