I agree on the part about turning a blind eye is pursuing. But how much should a person confront the A? In my case I have told her several times that it is wrong, immoral etc. Harping on it frustrates her and me alike. Our cases differ a little as my W's A is more an EA right now. A PA does need a differant approach.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......