I guess I can sum up my feelings about your recent posts by saying - be "you".
I suppose becoming higher functioning means being better able to integrate the different aspects of one's personality. I am actually getting pretty good at comforting my own bunny with my cow rather than just protecting her with my lioness. I guess the question becomes if you do become fully integrated enough to not "need" to be in a relationship can you still passionately "want" to be in a relationship?
****************************************************** Monkeygirl is in ascendence this morning so I clipped a couple quotes from the man who is the best example of a "top" as opposed to an "Alpha" that I know. Reading his biography helps me to remember why I really don't want to be in a relationship with a man who is pure "top".
Quote:
"I doubt if there are any rational people to whom the word 'fuck' would be particularly diabolical, revolting or totally forbidden."
Quote:
He asked me what I mean by a humanist. I say: A humanist is someone who remembers the faces of the people he spanks.
