Thank you Jack (love your descriptive writing on your own threads BTW). Unfortunately I do feel rather comfortable here.
Bit angry today. D had me up 6 times in the night with bad dreams, poor soul. She has been having nightmares for a few nights now (classic abandonment ones-hardly surprising). W came round to see her last night and although I obviously can't be sure, I think that's unsettled her further. Another consequence on a 3 year old innocent, I fear. I will have a good cry to my C about it this afternoon.
I wasn't at home when W came as I was at work late. My mum said W was subdued and seemed sad. Don't know why and in a way it doesn't matter, but so much for a happy life.
Re:GALing. I have lots planned for this weekend with D and friends. Should be good for the PMA.