Life of Job

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Whatis;
The point is I am done waiting to look like an OK alternative to some needy f*ck face OM. I am very clear on this fact, I am not closing the door, I am not throwing in the towel, I am saying I will not accept her behavior because it is immoral, hateful, and desrespectful.

If she wants to pursue a relationship with OM, then leave our home, file for divorce, wait for it to be final, then go f@ck up your life with this POS. Or at least move out and file. I have had it with this fence sitting, cake eating bullsh!t.

It is not just pride, it is common consideration. I am tired of all the "you contributed to the crisis as well bullsh!t", yes, I took for granted that my wife loved me, I became complacent in that I was bending over backwards to give her what she said outloud was what she wanted, yes I failed to read her f*cking mind, but I never disrespected her, I never ignored her, I never thought "to h#ll with her".

All of this begs the question, what is your goal?

My goal at this point is to make several things clear to my wife.
1) I love you

2) I want to make our marriage work

3) I am willing to do anything to work towards a healthy marriage except overlook the fact that you are sleeping with someone else.

4)If you are unwilling to discontinue your R with OM and work towards repair, then you need to live somplace else.

mcojh;
The party line is GAL is for you, DB, as far as 180 and LRT are to change the dynamics and responses of your relationship. Your W "coming to her senses" is totally up to her. DB is to stop your W from walking/running away, to take a second look and think "am I sure I want to give this up?"

I have come to the conclusion that there is a distinct difference between WAS and WAS with OP. In both cases we should not pursue, but in the case of WAS w/ OP, NOT actively confronting the affair IS pursuing.

Every time we turn a blind eye towards the affair, we in effect condone the behavior. Everytime our S leaves to be with OP, we send the messsage that we accept the behavior.(we all agree, look at what they DO, not what they say)