MC last night went well...MC explained to H that my feelings were NORMAL b/c we'd been dealing with his issues for so long. H has been AWESOME. Patient, trying to understand, listening and validating....
And tonight, I decided to go out instead of waiting around for H to come home from work. Met people I didn't know very well for happy hour; glad I did! I had a great time, and it helped put my focus back on me. I had a fabulous time!
And guess what? H didn't crumble. I just need to keep doing these things for me, just like H does for himself. It's good for US.
BTW, my "friend" from this summer has all of a sudden been TM and emailing a lot after asserting we shouldn't really hang out of respect for H. It's nice to be wanted, LOL!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
