I have to agree with 8 - I don't think anyone can decide for another as to when the "right" time is to pull the plug, only the individual in the sitch knows. I thought I would have pulled the plug a lot earlier than where I am now, but I am still hanging in there (and this is the 2nd A for my H) - what makes me stay? Right now, I can't really tell you, I am presuming and hoping it is the love/life we have between us that I think is worth trying to save. And, for the time being, H feels the same way (although it seems day to day it changes). But, if he was not in the game and still seeing OW, I don't know if my opinion would be the same.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
