I think MC will be very good for you both! Going is not a sign of weakness any more than two people who speak a different language going to a translator.
I'm very pleased for you as this is such a positive development. My only caution is that it may take her some time to really commit to it and engage. My WAW wanted to go to MC and we did, but she really just wanted a forum to blame me for everything. She didn't really engage for two months. But, ultimately, she did and this appears to have been of great value.
