Great advice! i am going to try it, but I need to stay focused on finding out who I am now, surrounding myself with "por marriage" individuals and staying very busy. I would love to chat live someday. There are times I just need an ear who knows what I'm going through. I'm also in California (actually SF Bay Area). I stayed at work late, just trying to avoid coming home. A girfriend moved in to help me out $$ and she needed a place to rent. Thank goodness, I'd go mad alone in my house. It sounds so wierd to think of it as mine only, at least for now. So I have to ask everyone:
Do you all still wear your ring? I refuse to take mine off, I am still married and committed.
Are you dating? Some have suggested that I go out on dinner dates. I don't want to nor think that it's correct. I understand that my H will date or has OW but I am not open to it. How can I claim to want to save my marriage and do what he is doing?
