OK Whatisis and 8, answer me this. My sitch is pretty similar to 8's. TIf the average A lasts 9 months, how does one stop a WAS having an A from moving out? I don't want to put words in 8's post, but if a W won't "come to their senses" and realize the destruction that they are causing? All the DBing and GALing in the world mean nothing if the WAS won't come around.
I may be turning too cynical, but if there is a deadline out there, whether real or implied, as it looms closer hope seems to be a rare commodity.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......