In summation, I have no desire to feel emotionally connected to a man who cannot or will not honor any contract to provide me with a reasonable level of security, care and sexual satisfaction.
I know what you mean by this, and it happened in my M. I have no words of wisdom to offer you, other than... one person can only take so much, give so much.
I don't believe in dying a slow death in an M.
Mediocre, luke-warm, not too bad, not too good, is the very definition and experience of hell, to me.
And so on that optimistic, uplifting post, I shall take myself off to bed.