I'm glad to hear things are going well for you still. Things are better here, but still trying to adjust to some bumps in the road. I am finding it does get easier.
The other day husband confided in me a secret that actually made me feel better about things. Sometimes details are good! He mentioned joining a dating service for one month relatively early in the divorce. I thought this was good because it meant he wasn't that "in love" with OW (because if he had been he wouldn't have looked elsewhere).
I guess he thought this would make me angry... yes, I was a bit POed about the money (the divorce truly did cost a bloody fortune!!!). But I thought it was good. He didn't actually date anyone (beyond some lunch dates with various women) and didn't have S with anyone. He said he learned a lot from it. I'm just kind of glad he didn't spend the whole divorce mooning over OW. Is that strange that I feel this way?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
