You are so right about men taking longer to heal. My H has mentioned things from years ago during our separation. I couldn't even remember some of them!
I hate to chime in hear and although I agree with you about men taking longer to heal, so do women. I've apolgized at least 3 or 4 times to my W regarding her 40th birthday party 3 years ago (I will spare you the details) and she still brings this back in my face. Obviously, she has never forgiven me and I will not grovel and apologize for this again because it makes no difference to begin with anyway
