BI,

Try this.

"Hun, I just happen to feel optimistic and grateful because God saved our lives. I am fully aware that our financial situation is pretty tight, but I think that a positive and creative mental attitude might be more helpful to us right now. At least that were I want to live. I'm in this with you."

"Hunnnnnn. I know you are soooooo stressssed by finances. You seem soooo tense. Mmmmmmmmmm.....Maybe I can help you relieve a little of that pent up stress baby. Can I help you release some of your anxiety? Mmmmmmmm." Then play that 70's porn movie music: boom, chaka, boom, boom.

heheheheh.