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I like that you told him "ees not my chob, man." And I like, especially, that you told him "I would appreciate it if you would do a better job taking care of yourself so that you could do a better job meeting my needs/wants as your wife." This is very schnarchy of you.


I thought it was very "feminine" of me. Though I guess it was my attempt to translate Scharch into "girltalk".

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Fran is right. Don't help him out of that tree. Don't avoid the evening sales because you fear him starving, or fear his confrontation with you upon your return. He needs you in a lot of different ways, but I think the most important one is what Fran said in her post, "they really need someone who trusts them to climb out of the tree on their own."


True.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver