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Its not a low point its an opportunity.
Mojo: yes they will. My kids give me a medal for it everyday, and I give myself a medal. You get a big red 'F' for being nice though. Im going to buy myself something pretty, and Im Not doing the dishes. Bye.


It's interesting to me that you found my H's remark to be mean. I just thought it was depressing. Also, if I don't do the dishes I'm just punishing myself because they'll just be twice as nasty in the morning. (There's a definite analogy here but I'm not going to go there.)

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'Oh you want me to act like a man.... Um. (head scratch) uh ... but look, I did all that other stuff you wanted... '
Don't confuse supplication with honoring a contract. They are opposites. Supplication can be defined as not honoring a contract that you made with yourself. If I ask my H "Will you have sex with me on Friday?" and he say "Yes.". It's his problem with his manhood if he didn't want to say "Yes". If he doesn't show up on Friday night then it becomes my problem with his manhood.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver