I don't have alot of girlfriends, but they are supportive of whatever I want to do (while cautioning me). I understand your friends, but I think you might want to tell them that their pressuring you isn't helping. You can think about how much and if you want to share with them.
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I joined a divorce/separartion group and they meet in a few weeks. I'm not sure about it because I want to try and surround myself with por-marriage individuals but right now, there is no one???
Wrong, you have us here. Most people don't know how to help others deal with pain and death, so they want them to move on. It's easier for the ones who love you. If you find you need someone to physically talk to let me know. We can work something out. I know that just hearing myself actually say things makes me really think about it. I went to a C (one session) and she suggested a crisis group a depression group and a divorce group. I have a T-shirt from similar group stuff and I haven't gone there yet b/c I don't think it's right for ME. Feel free to go and tell them if you see it's a whinning group that only supports "moving on". It's fair to give it a shot though, you might find like minded folks who would love a pro-marriage solution based session. You could help someone else by giving them a direction they didn't know about. All the while helping yourself with whereever it is you want to go.
