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Does he care? Right now, no. In fact, he would be relieved if you died in a car accident. Sorry, but that's probably true. Then, in a couple of months from now, you might feel relieved if he died in a car accident. And guess what? If this works out between the two of you, those feelings will change.


Um, ouch. \:\( Maybe a little harsh? I don't believe any of us, including the MLC'ers causing all this pain, would wish death upon any of us. JMO.

OB,
It may be difficult to find pro marriage support; I have found it that way, too. Esp. for some of us that have been at this for a few years. But this BB is full of pro marriage people that will offer up advice and help when you need it most. \:\)

Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.