starting the long journey

[mcojh]

I got this from either Muddle of Theo, but it applies here as well. She needs to greive the relationships death. Hold her hand, greive with her. She is going to need someone strong and rocklike in her life right now. Simply let her know that you are there for her, you understand she is hurting and that she can talk whenever she needs.

Don't take on her problem, be her support, her rock. You can do this, stay in the game.