I think nops would work too because of the INTENSE conflict of emotion of 'ohhh thats nice' to the mental imagery of....never mind. GRRR. See thats why I dont allow BJ's. Teeth. and dirty mouths...trust a woman with with my johnson... pfff. whatever.
I don't understand it but I can say that it's really real. I can feel it vibrating off him.
YES They can feel it. If they can read you from across a room then they can most certainly feel your emotions when you are up against her.
you can not hide it. how can a woman make herself vulnerable and defenseless before you if you are afraid of her? There she is allowing you to enter her being and make her intensely emotional, and YOU are afraid.
WHAT??
Dont be the bunny.
Here is a quickie for you
I just Love a quickie. hahahahah. ahhh.. I crack me up.
soyanara.
oh yeah HP. Im dead serious. You better start implementing Corris ideas. Dont be stingy.
Excellent. Have you been reading some sex manuals that I don't yet have in my library.-LOL.
I don't think so... LOL!!!
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This brought to mind the time that my H told me that I was "blocking his manly desire". I wasn't telling him what to do but I was asking him to tell me what to do. I was actually saying "What do you want me to do now?" in a teasing voice. So maybe I was telling him to tell me? I'm really beginning to doubt my sexual communication skills.
I guess I could see that approach, most especially with your H, as a tad bit aggressive... and for him to respond to you... would require him to be way more vulnerable than I think he is willing to be.
One of the things I have been learning, which has been incredibly difficult for me... is this whole vulnerability stuff. I've been in sitches with my bf where I have felt so humbled and humiliated (not from anything HE does to me, but just in giving up control of my own body to another... whew). And I go to sleep thinking, 'how in the heck am I ever going to be able to look him in the eye come tomorrow?' But then... tomorrow comes, and the emotional closeness I find there is so astounding to me that I get over myself. And I think... 'huh, I must be onto something here.' The more I do it, the more 'humbling' experiences I have, the less afraid I become of them.... for me, I always have to stay just outside my own comfort zone... when I don't... I start to feel pissy and resentful, and the sex isn't so great, at least emotionally.
Being secure sexually doesn't mean that one is secure with vulnerability. I don't see you being vulnerable with your H, but OTOH, I'm not so sure that he'd be comfortable with it, either. Maybe Blackfoot can comment on this.
Whew - I laughed from page 8 right on through to here.
HP,
I think several of these approaches would successfully make the point. Anything that involves your hand or mouth on Mr. HP's unit will make it very memorable. KWIM?? Despite his sissified initiation it is impressive that he actually PLANS for sex now - I'm a little jealous.
Any chance that you can come home in a really fabulous new outfit? Something that makes YOU feel great? I'm just thinking that if he needs to channel Antonio then you need to be channeling a suitable counterpart. Hey - do you think that babytalk DOES turn your H on? (Personally, I hate it but some people like it - if not in the bedroom then an occasional sitting on his lap whispering something cutesy in his ear).
Giving up the bb for Lent. Yeah, I can see that. Maybe I should do the same :-). Besides, with all the nailin' going on in the HP household, who's got time for the BB? Sounds like you got one of the best rides in the amusement park right there in the privacy of your own home!
So the question is what is MrHP giving up? Maybe he gave up baby talk and waiting for his wife to initiate.
I'm giving up placating, whining, and mind-reading :-) See ya after Easter.
P.S. You might want to move the bed away from the wall a little bit more. We wouldn't want that headboard making holes in the nice sheetrock, would we (not to mention trying to explain to the girls why daddy was hammering all night)
HP, one more thing before you go off into the desert for 40 days: Maybe Karen is onto something, perhaps your trip is the time to pick up some nice lingerie and surprise MrH when he rips your clothes off upon your return and finds a tantalizingly wrapped Honeypot under the travelling clothes. I'm proud of you, my friend. You've done marvelously.
I think nops would work too because of the INTENSE conflict of emotion of 'ohhh thats nice' to the mental imagery of....never mind. GRRR. See thats why I dont allow BJ's. Teeth. and dirty mouths...trust a woman with with my johnson... pfff. whatever.
(not to mention trying to explain to the girls why daddy was hammering all night)