A more proactive approach as opposed to a 'do nothing, wait and see what she does first' approach.
I was always told that a "He Who Cares the Least -- Wins" approach is the way to go. Never worked for me, tho, and it doesn't seem like it's working for ol' Abyss here, either.
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And as far as the NOPs go, yes, Mrs. NOP stepped up in a very big way, but NOP did start it, and he had to work at her quite some time, if I remember correctly.
I'd love to know this -- how long after NOP started the rapproachment was it before MrsNOP joined the fray?