I was catching up on your sitch and feeling positive until I got to you last post...I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I don't really know what to say right now....but H discussing D like a possession is not helpful. Try not to focus on who the woman is....even if it isn't innocent it really doesn't matter in the bigger scheme of things. Whatever you say about the woman he will feel justified in doing whatever it is he's doing because of your A. Believe me, as much as I want to save my marriage part of me wants to see what it would be like with someone else while I have the chance...I know it's a terrible thing to say in the midst of DB'ing but it's how I feel. Maybe it's anger, hurt, whatever, but it's a need to be wanted and appreciated and "loved" (validated is probably a better word than loved!) by someone who hasn't hurt you. I also don't know why dinner and movies would be OK with him if he truely doesn't want to be with you. I will have to think about this one....please keep us updated and know that you are in my thoughts every day.
Me 36 ring on H 41 ring off S2 Together since 1992 Married: 2000 Bomb Aug 06 H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)
