Guys, I get what "discern" means, and I understand the difference between the definition of "rejection" and "hesitancy." What I want him to explain is, HOW can you tell the difference, and what are you supposed to do with that knowledge?
I'm sensing there's something REALLY GOOD in that statement, and maybe I classified all "hesitancy" as "rejection" in my marriage, I don't know. I just want him to expound upon it.