I disagree, Utterly. I don't think two months is much time to WORK at something jointly (like someone else said, it may take up to one month per year that you've been married, or maybe one month per year that you've had these problems). But I DO think it's a long time -- TOO long -- for one spouse to work at something unilaterally , without ANY help from the other spouse.
We all like to use the NOPs as an example around here, and they are a wonderful success and inspiration. But they BOTH worked at this, and while each may have pissed the other off several times along the way (I seem to remember flying dinnerware!), I don't think either of them ever felt like the other one wasn't also INVOLVED in this thing?
