He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Thank you so much! I really needed the ego booster today!

Here is the letter I am handing him tonight and will have him read with me there:

I just want to say that we should really only need to talk about the kids, our financial dealings and our relationship (though this one may not be much to talk about right now). I am truly done asking questions of your other doings, I want to know nothing more. Unless there are statements made about me and what I am doing to 'us' that drag my name down, those I would like to defend/talk about.

I don't care about Karrick or who else knows (unless I am going to get blindsided big time it would be nice to know that), I don't care where Ow resides (as long as it is not with our kids) or her finances (as long as she is getting no $$$ from you) and I do not care to hear the logic/reasoning behind this 'cold sore' issue. I trust you will take precautions and not expose the kids to this when kissing them. I did a search on cold sores and they are highly contagious, even when there are no outlying symptoms.

So these are my new boundaries I hope you can understand where I am coming from. I need to start focusing on me I am withering away literally (both physically and emotionally) and I need to start healing too.

I need to trust (and this is hard for me right now) that you will be true to the four areas we talked about this past week and how you promised to honor each one of them for this I am grateful. Thank-you! signed Me


So this is it. No blame just the facts and me truly starting to let him go. I cannot even get myself to cry today - which is good! I am sure come Sat. (when he moves out) will be a diff story...