Discernment is the ability to differentiate.

He means hesitancy is not the same thing as rejection

Which means don't assume her hesitancy is a rejection and don't react as if it were a rejection. Hesitancy requires reassuring leadership.

BTW hairdog this is Ms HD's tree, give her your complete faith that she can climb out of it. Stay on the ground.


Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong