I think this is all very good. Very, very good. And I think your H is a good writer, too. I think he is being very clear, and I think he is actually trying to not to do the 'blame' game stuff. He's opening up to you, and telling you how he feels.
Dam, girl... wow.
I agree with Blackfoot... maybe these convos between you should stay in email form for a time... you are getting a lot of very good information.
