I have an appt. with c on friday. I plan on discussing so much with him that I don't know where to begin. D11 is having some difficulties with her best friend (fighting--not speaking-blaming), she is having anxiety attacks at swimming and now this. I did not react when she told me this. In fact, I have said nothing. I will not discuss H and his accusations with her. I do know that he pumps her for info about what is going on at home. I don't know why. It is not like I am out on the town every night wooping it up. I am just trying to be the best mom I can be under the circumstances. The C we see is very well regarded for his work with kids. I just hope he is reading into H like I am and not falling for the manipulation that H can put forth.
My problem with H is that he has filed for D but doesn't want to have to be bound by custody agreement, financial agreement. He wants to still be able to come and go as he pleases and see d11 whenever he is available. He is so out there that I just don't know if he even knows what he is doing.
Anyway, hopefully this c can help us all. H is so convinced that I am poisoning S14 against him that I am worried about what he is doing to "retaliate" with d11. She is so young and torn.
He is still in hiding after the cc incident. I am hoping he is looking into it and will see that this is not a card that I recently took out in his name to hurt him, but an old card never paid off that is out there because he is in lala land.
Anyway, this whole thing with d11 has me so upset I can cry. She is so young and innocent and I know that inside she is hurting so very much. I feel like s14 is the lucky one. He has detached with anger for now and maybe he will be ok.
