I'm sorry Muddle, I feel the same way. My sitch got bad yesterday and I am feeling the same way. We need to hang tough, remember the good days instead of the bad. When we have a good time it shows promise, and you have to way the good heavier than the bad. It's easy to have a bad day, It actually takes no effort at all. Other people can make you have a bad day. IT takes strength and effort to have a good day, and if there are good days then an effort is being made, wether it's you or her, there is still an effort. Stay strong, and keep fighting. All of us know how hard it is, except for the ones who want a divorce, They feel that it shouldn't be hard to reconcile, because it wasn't hard to fall in love the first time. But any one knows that working on something takes a lot of effort, and time. So keep your head up. I am.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
