He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Well it is getting so much more out of control now that the Ow H now knows. More people are finding out in our small community I am scared for my kids. Stuff like this goes like wild fire.

My H seemed for the first time to really listen to me about her and herpes, her other boyfriend but then I went on to long and he clamped down.

He says he is not comfortable with all that I am telling my family and best friend. I should have said I was not comfortable with him f*&king another woman. God this is so unfair. I said he talks to her every morning and I have had NO ONE since Aug 9th - I would go crazy not getting this out (which is why I love this place and all your suppport).

I know I have backslid due to the other H this week but I am emailing him asking him to not call or email me anymore with "their" details (he has to live it cuz Ow is still in his house for the next 30 days). I really just want to stop talking about Ow and their dillusional R - I told my H I just want to talk about kids, money issues and if he wants to talk about our R (what's left of it) I will do that but he needs to initiate.

My best friends says they are doomed to fail - but how long can I wait? He's broken my heart so bad I am starting to question if I really do want him back...

How can they feel this will work when they both have pre teen kids who are going to be really pissed off that their "R" caused the breakups of two families...I am so scared for my daughter and her future experiences with relationships...

Thanks for reading this and help give me strength to get through this - it is so damn hard...