Stubborn, try BR Dance lessons, you and your S can learn to fight in public too. It's truly a connecting experience. I'd like to connect my W to a chair that plugs in! ZAP. Hey, on a funnier note, last night the dance instructor came over and asked us what part of the dance we were having difficulty with, I replied "the part where you dance"! W did actually smile when I sprung that one. Hang in there Stubborn, but remember I've always got a spare room over in "Thinking of Leaving".
