GASP!!! That would honestly be one of life's cruelist tricks to inflict any female with a chocolate allergy. Now H and his oldest son both claim allergy to chocolate, but they still eat it. So how can they be allergic?
You are trying to keep a lot of balls in the air, but isn't that pretty typical? Which ball would shatter if it hit the ground, and which balls would bounce back up into the mix? Your work and your income is off to a good start, and it's important to you feeling good about yourself, your H feeling good about you, and contributing to the family as a whole. That seems like an important ball to keep in the air. But that's my business side taking over too. Kids well being shouldn't suffer, schoolwork, etc., but they're pitching in a little extra with duties around the house right? Family effort, could be fun if presented the right way.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
