Thanks, Jen. It's funny, but I've been doing all sorts of things to my living room. It hasn't consciously been about H, but maybe subconsciously? I bought these deep purple shimmery curtains and have hung a curtain rod BY MYSELF (I had to use a drill...I felt like such a MAN!) that look AMAZING. It's really out of the box, but I had a hunch they'd look great it here.

We have MC tonight. Not sure what I'll say or what will come out of it. Don't know how to articulate how I'm feeling. I love H, but I need space to figure things out. I need him to do some work too, giving me space and not getting his knickers in a knot about things. *I* listen when I'm dead on my feet, so I want the same.

Blah. Blah blah blah. I hate this part. DBing was EASIER when H was an ALIEN!!!!!!!!!!

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!