It is so good to hear from you. In regards to standing well I guess God will reveal His answers in time and we don't know what his plan is but some day we will.
About the inlaws. I think it is possible to be supportive of both the mlcer and the spouses. I know blood is thicker than water but we should not just be discarded after all these years.
Well not much to do except deal with those feelings or run them over like Angelica suggested.
