Wow, that's pretty close to what my H said to me the other day when I asked him why he won't say ILY to me, he said "but you know I do" aaaack!!!
It is so spooky how they all say the same things isn't it??? It's like they have all been brainwashed.
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Then again, it goes back to men are from mars, women are from venus, women need constant reasurance and compliments. For men, it is harder to talk about their emotions, so prob your H assumes you "must" know he loves you since he is home and he is trying.
Haven't actually read the book but know the general idea from talking to others who have. The thing is with my H though yes he doesn't like talking about his emotions but he was always saying ILY before. He would say it before hanging up the phone, and even the smallest note that he left eg: what time he'd be home would have ILY on the end of it. So not hearing it from him anymore makes me think something is still seriously wrong. I don't understand why they have such a problem with it once they've been a WAS? Is it because they don't really love us anymore and we've somehow forced them back to us? I really do wonder.
