You are getting so much good advice. You may not be able to see that all today, but as time passes you will. I started sending myself flowers with encouraging notes. Proflowers on-line is a good way to do it.
Me 45 H 51 married 15 yrs D 13, S's 10,8 bomb 1-06, moved out 3-06 filed for D, 7-06,10-06,11-06,12-06 3-07, asked to try again 6-07 D on hold D process restarted 10-07 now trying to reconcile!