I thought that you had already handled those matters and that they had influenced your husband to move off-center.
Kudos to your hubby for his move.
Back to you. You need to demonstrate to him that you can eat some of your pride, the very thing he intimates as a problem in his email to you.
Thank him for the email.
With the new information, I would suggest that you immediately tell him that the truck has been listed since (date), and tell him why, then immediately address the kissing. After that has soaked in for a minute or two, address the meeting as my previous post indicated.
If the situation temporarily blows apart, you remain the bastion of calm and collected and try again after emotions die down a little (minutes or hours, not days).
Let us know what your plan is.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.