Not exactly. I've listed the truck-it was listed immediately online, but the next hard copy Autotrader doesn't publish until this Friday. So, I've listed it but haven't received any calls or anything. I have not told H what I'm doing.
The kissing issue is the same. I feel like I have an opening now to say something about it, whereas before, with the way we've been living and him ignoring me and all it seemed so odd just to say, out of the blue, 'By the way, you never have to kiss me again.' Nothing about that felt right. But now, I have an opportunity to address it and I will. I'm just not sure the sequence of events here....address old R (how much time do we give that then?), negotiate new R and what happens in between as far as our living arrangements and such.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."