Just calm respectful statements of your desires for the relationship.
You are negotiating a new relationship. That means that you state your wishes for the new relationship, not make demands.
If the air begins to fill with frustration, take a break. If you need to, then break the meeting into multiples over a span of days.
The goal is to find out if both of you can reasonably continue in the relationship, and if not to come to an agreement for amicably ending the relationship.
Are you following me on this approach?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
