Quote: --------------------------------------- I'm thinking now is the time to discuss me taking my proper place back in the family with appropriate treatment from him. ---------------------------------------
Exactly.
Here is what you want from him; You say you want the same things, BUT, you must build a new relationship with the pain and hurts from the past, dead. No more punishment for your affair, etc. This is a basic tenant for the new relationship.
You need to sit down with your husband face to face, and with no harsh words, no screaming, or fighting, and work out what both of you desire from your new relationship.
I am still on my first cup of coffee (late night), but I will closely look over the letter. In the mean time, set up a formal time (with no distractions) to meet with your hubby to discuss the matters at hand.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
