Been married 23yrs. Wife told me at xmas she had been having an affair for 2yrs. Had another affair for 3months before this on. Has ended affair and wants to stay together. She has been working hard on the marriage. However, I feel no fidelity towards our marriage now. It has changed me. I also cannot get past her being with these other men. she says in time I will. But, I have not been able to and have contacted a divorce lawyer. I love her, but the visions of her with these other men pop into my head and turn my time with her soar. I also get very angry. Its been about 3 months.
Any help or advice from someone in a similar situation.
