Lonleyolive,

Ouch, ouch, ouch.

We tell our kids, that though there's a divorce, that daddy loves them and is to be trusted. The truth is that daddy is a liar and an adulterer.

It feels kind of strange then, to want to shield them from the OW, who is an adulterer, liar and a thief (stole your husband).

We are civilized about this aren't we?

Sorry...I find our legal system sooooo bizarre.

--Theoden